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作者: hanny008    時間: 2008-5-25 00:37     標題: Do you mind your wife is not an virgin?

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作者: gan1026    時間: 2008-5-25 07:21

如果你是真的爱她的话
你就不要介意
如果你介意的话
那就分手吧
作者: QstanleQz    時間: 2008-5-25 13:02

如果你为了这个问题而烦。。
我可以肯定你不注重于真情,反而是这些。。
爱不是用这种来衡量。。
作者: el-cid    時間: 2008-5-25 13:20

以上两个大大的说法我都认同,
你爱的是她,不是爱她的处女!
要是你会嫌弃的话,
你根本还不够资格去讲感情的事!

作者: joe6699    時間: 2008-5-25 18:21

yap..me too..if u is love her..how come mind she is VIGIR or not la..
inportam is..SHE LOVE U,AND U LOVE GER
that enogh la
rite
DONT THINK MUCH..WASTE TIME ONLY..
USE THE TIME LOVE HER MORE LA..
作者: thirdeyes    時間: 2008-5-25 22:40

er... still have ppl mind this Qs ????? u better go back to 60's
作者: ganplus2    時間: 2008-5-26 10:22

yup...if u love her,u wouldn't mind all about this...
if u cant accept, juz break up..dun waste her time....
作者: frankie_lai7    時間: 2008-5-26 20:33

谁没过去啊?你喜欢她的过去,还是和她有美好的将来啊?
爱一个人是该包容他的一切啊
作者: max_cool29    時間: 2008-5-27 13:04

she is the one who spend the rest of her life with u isn't?
So, why do u mind about this question?
Aren't the question is that she suitable with u or not?
作者: davidgoh0610    時間: 2008-5-27 17:17

virgin or not is not important, the most important things is, u love her or not?
if you care about she is not virgin, you are not love her enough and maybe you juz love her body?
Love her, accept her, whatever she done in the past is no more important if you love her deep enough..

this is wat i think la... juz a suggestion, you are the one who make the choice, not me! Unless you wan me to marry her~~ :P Lol... juz kidding~~ Final word, accept her, if you truely love her!!!
作者: Jackswing    時間: 2008-5-29 19:31

Yeah man, my gf is not a virgin. so? wat the heXX? I still love her. let's make it simple.
Does VIRGIN = happiness???
you ask urself

[ 本帖最後由 gan1026 於 2008-5-29 19:56 編輯 ]
作者: outlife11    時間: 2008-5-29 23:43

处女绝种动物喔!?重要吗?还不是人一个!
old-fashioned human being only care about it...
作者: JAYYAP    時間: 2008-6-2 18:52

谁没过去啊?你喜欢她的过去,还是和她有美好的将来啊?
爱一个人是该包容他的一切啊
作者: westwood0426    時間: 2008-6-2 21:59

如果你非常介意,結婚前要三思,
幸福要兩個人一起創造,說服不了自己,不要勉強。
這是最近看了一個朋友的故事,所以告訴你。
那位朋友的丈夫在外公幹,一個月回家一次,
婚前丈夫已知她不是處女,但是那根刺還在,
婚後半年沒有“性福”,
她上個月出外散心,未知她會如何挽救...
作者: cksckcs    時間: 2008-6-3 00:40

爱就要有心理准备接受对方的全部
作者: tkm9113    時間: 2008-6-3 09:26

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作者: stevegsk    時間: 2008-6-5 01:58

WALAU 。。。。。。。。。
什么年代聊了大哥 @@!
作者: back101    時間: 2008-6-6 12:50

man....dun like tat lah... now is hard to find virgin d....exspecially the pretty gal... and sum more now the tenager is open mind 1...so dun care about tat lah... pls appeaciated what you have now... she lov u, and u lov her...so dun care about that "1mm skin" loh...k?
作者: vios2000    時間: 2008-6-9 00:02     標題: 回復 #1 hanny008 的帖子

have u ever fuck any gal beside your gf???
作者: 14781477    時間: 2008-6-9 12:36

virgin is not important, the point is how much u love her? how much do u care her? if answers is deeply lover... y u care about those matter? a girl told u that she is not virgin is not easy job.. u should treasure her
作者: wennny    時間: 2008-6-10 10:44

virgin important life? man, you are old people and not valid to marry with her. We are new generation people and need care each others and not always thinks about that. But most impotant things is are you virgin too? how people look on you , virgin guy?
作者: stone84    時間: 2008-6-10 13:26

如果你为了这个问题而烦。。
我可以肯定你不注重于真情,反而是这些。。
爱不是用这种来衡量。。
作者: king_ytw2003    時間: 2008-6-10 13:29

what the heXX man. u still live in 1957 years..virgin where nice...first time very fan u know...everythings need to slowly slowly and understand their feeling...haha^^ no virgin best mahh...fast no problem,what style u like also no problem...haha^^ kidding...but mostly what is my suggestion is...if u want virgin just go find the gf 17 18 age gf but no love...but of cources have little bit disepointed about that...i also have that feeling.. but is ok if she agree to  love with you...just enjoy yourself...if ur gf also mind u not a virgin how?haha u also have materbated ur self mahh...that already conside not virgin..

[ 本帖最後由 gan1026 於 2008-6-18 19:31 編輯 ]
作者: Ding82QQ    時間: 2008-6-10 20:46

真的愛一個人的話
不會想到這些吧
應該去想怎樣的愛她珍惜她
給她幸福等等的?
作者: hian1986    時間: 2008-6-12 09:58

真心相爱。。。
何必在乎一切呢???
作者: kiatloo    時間: 2008-6-18 11:09     標題: 真心相愛

人家愛到可以犧牲生命啊!
真真的愛情,就是要包容他的所有.
作者: kentlko    時間: 2008-6-22 01:34

她的后面应该还是处女吧=)
作者: Nikonx    時間: 2008-6-28 11:07

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作者: cuomo    時間: 2008-7-5 16:31

jsut do according to ur feeling...if u feel wan to cont and marry her, jsut do it...
作者: twoman    時間: 2008-7-6 13:21

如果要处女,可以去买一个。几十千。
找遇到,而喜欢的,就不要这样想啦。
毕竟,她也不想的,她也以为第一次的就是最后一个。可惜她也遇到负心汉。。。。。
作者: vun    時間: 2008-7-15 00:35

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作者: skemed    時間: 2008-7-15 20:56

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作者: Hitaro    時間: 2008-7-16 23:13

楼主。。。你真的知道什么是爱吗 ???
你就只是爱她的处女妈 ???

这么简单的问题。。。稍微有点智慧的人都懂。。。。你不懂 ????
是不是处女对你来说真的这么重要吗 ???

别浪费论坛的空间呀 。。。。如果还是搞不懂的话 干脆分手算了 免得伤了你女朋友的心 !!!
作者: christying    時間: 2008-7-19 10:39

你自己是处男吗? 如果不是你就没 资格去嫌弃你女友!
每个人都有个过去,你要人家接受你的过去那你也该接受他的过去.
如果你做不到你就是个自私的男人!那么你根本不值得任何一个女人去爱!!::17:
作者: orcboy    時間: 2008-7-20 18:56

if you're so mind this kind of thing, then you better not having any realationship.
If many people think the same way as you, then many people in Malaysia no need marry at all.
Since now many girl also lost their virginity when there still in secondary school, you can go back to secondary school and
pretend as a student and get a girl friend and looking for a virgin.

PS: Hang a sign board infront of your chest and say: I'm looking for a virginity girl friend, anyone interested please call me
作者: siaowenang    時間: 2008-7-31 23:19

i am doubt that are you in really in love with her or her body??
is virginity so important ??
it is just small piece of tissue brother..
if only virgin can get marry, then we should be feeling pity to those who born naturally without the "tissue"...
作者: Aenz    時間: 2008-8-1 00:33

爱情不是用处女膜来衡量,主要是靠双方彼持的瞭解,真诚对代,双方共同努力。。开发美好的将来。。。加油!!!朋友。。。。::28: ::47: ::29:
作者: 冷月    時間: 2008-8-7 20:46

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原帖由 hanny008 於 2008-5-25 00:37 發表
When you find your girl friend is not an virgin,will you marry with her? I have a girl friend who gave her first time to her former boy friend.She loves me deeply,and me too.But when we come toge ...
見仁見智吧!!

有的男生想像力比較豐富,會想說別人在自己太太身上過

心裡不是滋味,這是人之常情!

換個角度想,難道你自己沒在別人身上過嗎?

是與不是真的那麼重要嗎?

重要的是他是否真心與你交往才是王道吧!

一段感情的產生很容易,之後的經營才是困難的

別把重心放在這個方面,有時間的話

好好想想彼此對未來的規畫吧

如有冒犯~還請多見諒囉!!
作者: tanco    時間: 2008-8-8 21:30

爱不是用这种来衡量的。。爱就是要包容他的所有.
::1:
作者: papindo    時間: 2008-8-19 16:18

don't put too much though in this topic coz we would end up lying to yourself and your other part. just accept that she will love you from now on.. what is past is past mate..
作者: 光秀    時間: 2008-8-30 01:23

就算她是還擁有處女之身,也只能給你一次,你真的那麼介意?
大家男人,我也明白,其實你真正介意的,是她的第一次不是給你.
我想你大概還是處男吧,不然你也沒有理由那麼介意的.
細想你愛她有多深,這才做決定吧,旁人的立場是無法左右你對她的心意的.
作者: disgusting    時間: 2008-9-1 12:21

就算是处女,你能用多少次??
还不是那一次罢了!!
兄弟啊...看开点!!!
爱的是他的心而不是处女!!
作者: Nicholasbb    時間: 2008-9-5 19:21

Actually is not important about r u the first or not ,the most important is u can be last 1 or not.
作者: why4313    時間: 2008-9-7 02:58

分手,找过新的吧!!!
放不下就不要害人害己了
在乎这些你不会有辛福的::41:
作者: bb.ham    時間: 2008-9-7 19:18     標題: erm...

erm....i think if u really LOVE him sure u wont mind tis....
作者: lover1988    時間: 2008-9-13 23:25

i understand ur situation.... cz u feel ur gf like kongsi wif another guy rite....
but if u love ur gf.... even she is not virgin i think is ok la....
cz nw u  1 2 find a virgin gal n u love 1 is very hard....
so think b4 u do......
作者: cactus1    時間: 2008-10-2 20:56

你真XXXX!真的喜歡一個人那裡會介意她什麼什麼的!
除非你注重觀念多過她吧,假如是這樣那你跟她的婚事真的要考慮了.
作者: jerry1109    時間: 2008-10-2 22:35

大大把处女情结这问题想的太重也复杂化了吧。

你自己都说他深深地爱着你,你也爱他。

那你应该包容他的过去啊。

如果,你还是介意这些小节我劝你还是分手吧。

不然,以后一定会有问题的
作者: aliex320    時間: 2008-10-4 04:43

如果是處女   那當然是最好囉!!!


若不是   就要看個人的想法...在不在意

愛一個人本來就是 不是ㄧ件簡單的事,  擁忍跟包容 絕對是少不了

若再以的話   你就當 隨緣 或 分手吧!!!
作者: kentfc    時間: 2008-10-4 12:18

NOTHING guy..........normal only, just marry her if u still love her although u are not her 1st time....
so u can go to find another second time(other girl) hehe




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